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10 Dream Symbols You Should Never Ignore

“Dreams are invariably seeking to express something that the ego does not know and does not understand.” – Carl Jung.

Carl Jung was a 19th century psychotherapist. He conducted a series of studies and concluded that looking into dreams was opening a door into consciousness and the spirit world.

Dreams are a reflection a person’s sub conscious. Reading into dreams allows us to decode a person’s thoughts and repressed emotions. The dominant emotions and feelings in a person’s sub conscious manifests itself in the form of recurrent symbols in their dreams.

Here are 10 symbols common to dreams that you should never ignore:

1. FLYING

If you see yourself flying in your dream you need to reach ambition. Dreams of flying indicate excessive freedom and the urge to achieve and accomplish everything on your way.

2. WATERFALLS

The symbol of water is usually related to purity and calmness. It is considered extremely pious to dream about water. It signifies that the water is washing out the old and paving way for something new and great.

3. TEETH

Some dreams with teeth signify aging. Others however relate to stress and anxiety. A dream about pulling out teeth denotes the need to come out.

4. DEATH

Dreaming of death usually symbolizes the ending of something. But in some cases dreams of death may also mean a loved one is trying to connect with you.

5. PREGNANCY

Dreaming of being pregnant means some major growth is on your way. It is a symbol of development and fruitful desires.

6. HOUSES

Dreams of houses symbolize the self and its different aspects. Dreaming about an attic indicates hidden memories while dreaming of a basement indicates the intuition.

7. MONEY

Dreams about money relate to one’s prosperity.

If you see yourself winning a huge sum of money then you’re on the verge of a change in your lifestyle. If you dream of losing money it symbolises your fear of losing money.

The lack of financial stability is one of the leading causes of stress in a person’s life. Money drives the flow of life.

8. ADULTERY

Dreaming of adultery symbolises repressed sexual urges that demand to be expressed. They may also result from a person’s lack of self-worth or an unstable relationship.

Insecurity in any relationship may lead to such dreams.

9. FIRE

Dreams of fire have several meanings depending on their context. Seeing fire at a distance means possibilities and the desire for transformation. But if you see yourself playing with fire it means a warning for risky situations that are on their way. If you dream of starting a fire it symbolises your repressed anger.

10. NAKEDNESS

Dreams that centre on nudity or nakedness are pretty common. They relate to one’s fear of being exposed. If in the dream one sees some other person naked it mostly means their loss of respect. Such dreams signify the “naked truth” being exposed. They also indicate the need to accept flaws and imperfections.

If you often dream of being naked you’re probably afraid of showing the world your real self.

The dreams are our mind’s interpretation of what we see and feel when we are awake.

6 FEMALE BEHAVIORS THAT MEN JUST LOVE: NUMBER 5 WILL BLOW YOUR MIND!

Women are the most amazing gift men can have. Women care about men, love them, however, they also annoy men the most. Hence, many habits of women can really touch a nerve in men. For example, you constantly call him, you act like a child while doing something, you take selfies, you spend too much time shopping, etc. Nonetheless, there are some habits of women which men adore:

  1. Her head in his chest

Men simply love it when a woman puts her head on their chest. In those moments, they feel as if they are giving their loved one a sense of security.

  1. She plays with his hair while he’s driving

This is not only because of the physical pleasure from stroking his head, but men experience the caress as an expression of affection, love, and need for contact from the partner.

  1. She praises him on Facebook

Men can’t get enough of public appreciation.

  1. She listens to him carefully

This makes him feel loved.

  1. Sends him texts and calls him when she’s with friends

Guys love it when women show that they think of them although they are busy with something else.

  1. Affection in public

A man’s heart beats faster when you hold his hand or when you correct his hair while waiting in the checkout line.

Every Man Is Dying To Hear These 13 Things From His Woman

Men are believed to be less emotional than women. It’s said that they can do without an external display of affection. Well, we are taught not to be expressive.

But if you recognize these little things in us, it will mean the world to us:

1. Being handsome

We love to compliment our partners and tell them how beautiful they are. But sometimes, just the word ‘handsome’ sent our way would make us feel amazing. It just gives us the confidence we need. When we put in the effort to look good, this simple word can make all of it worth it.

2. Making someone proud

We strive towards ambitions and goals. We can work like a mule to get what we want. But all of it is extremely tiring. We don’t complain – that’s how we are. But a reassurance from our loving partner that we make them proud can work wonders. It can easily drain off all exhaustion and charge us back to full power.

3. Noticing the difference

Men build their bodies. We work out and strive to get those difficult abs and biceps, and be more able to protect you and ourselves. But while we are eating healthy and trying to become men, our motivation sways. A simple notice of difference in our physique, just an acknowledgement will reinforce that drive in us and make us go pumping again.

4. Being wanted

We are always making the first move, slipping in the sensuous touches and initiating sex. But it feels like we are the ones doing everything. We love you and want you, but sometimes, we want to be loved by you too. A bit of initiation from your end would reassure us that we are wanted too, wanted by no one else but you. And that means the world to us.

5. Making you feel amazing

Men love to satisfy their women on all levels. You know about your wants and we are willing to learn and be your best lover. An assurance that we are hitting the right spot is just the confidence booster we need. The more you encourage it, the better we become!

6. Opening up

Men are not really great communicators. We have learned to keep things to ourselves and solve it. It’s frustrating, but we can open up to people if they are willing to listen. Be that person – tell your man that you won’t be mad if he has something to tell. It does a world of good to him to open up in front of his special person. Just be sure you don’t really get mad or else you’ll shut him off completely.

7. Being trustworthy

It’s difficult to trust people these days, but time hasn’t changed enough to make trust take a backseat in relationships. It remains the foundation of it. It is generally thought that men can’t be trusted and somehow, we have begun doubting ourselves too. It makes us insecure. If our partner just mentions that they trust us, that’d be enough. We know we can keep your trust till the end of days!

8. Trusting one another

Trust goes both ways. While making your man believe that you trust them, don’t forget to mention about yourself too. Make him secure about the relationship – nothing can go wrong that way.

9. A little thanks

It’s the little things that matter the most. If it’s the tiniest work, like bringing takeaway home or making coffee just for you – a little thanks makes it all worth it. It’s not demanded, but ‘Thank You’ brings a note of appreciation that speaks volumes.

10. Respecting you

As men, we value respect. It makes us feel valuable. We love being respected by brothers, friends, colleagues and our special partner. Respect in love brings a whole new level to a relationship. It cannot exist without it.

11. Supporting each other

Being committed to someone means becoming empowered by a strong support system. Any decision we take will be strengthened tenfold if we know you support it. We value your opinion, and we want to know we are on the right path.

12. A feeling of appreciation

A ‘thank you’ may acknowledge our work, but we need to feel appreciated too. We want to be the best version of ourselves, to work out, to be protective to the ones who we care for and to be loving – there’s so much ground to cover. Knowing that our work is being appreciated does not make all this effort go to waste.

13. Making you happy

One of the ultimate dreams of a man is to see his woman happy. They’d trip over deliberately to make you laugh. Your happiness makes them happy. Make a point to acknowledge that we have made your world a bundle of joy. Our purpose will be fulfilled.

No matter how closed your man may seem, he needs love and affection as much as you do. If you make a point to put these little efforts into your relationship, you’ll fire up your man’s ambition and happiness and build a much better mutual relationship. Make it happen!

8 THINGS GIRLS DO UNINTENTIONALLY THAT MAKES THEIR BOYFRIENDS GO CRAZY

Men although fall in love quite easily, but often find it quite hard to express their feelings. However, as soon as they do, they keep it quite straight-forward and clear that they like you for anything you are.They like when you do these things which are purely casual but makes them go mad for you. It is always the small things that women unwittingly do that makes their boyfriends mad and this is exactly what they would like you to perform more frequently.

WE BRING YOU THESE 8 THINGS GIRLS DO UNINTENTIONALLY THAT MAKES THEIR BOYFRIENDS CRAZY!

1. THE WAY YOU MOVE FINGERS THROUGH YOUR HAIR.

This one just drives the boys crazy. Your boyfriend enjoys it if you play with your hair, He enjoys it when your hair flies with the wind. Although you don’t do it on purpose, it does the job.

2. THE WAY YOU LOOK AT HIM.

Read him for nearly a moment as well as the roughest of our type will glow. Boyfriends adore when their women look at them with love.

3. WHEN YOU TAKE CARE OF HIM.

Whenever he’s sick and you dedicate yourself to him, he enjoys it. A man gets totally fine when he finds himself at the arm of his beloved one. Your boyfriend enjoy those thoughts massages and mattress tea.

4. WHEN YOU TELL HIM THAT YOU LOVE HIM.

That is exactly what boyfriends truly crave for. He need to listen to it during the day and at the most surprising times. This makes him mad for you and he love you more.

5. THE WAY YOU WEAR YOUR SMILE.

Your smile is the main reason he falls for you. According to boyfriends, smile is the best asset a girl has. You must often smile because it makes your boyfriend happy.

6. THE WAY YOU WEAR HIS CLOTHES.

Wearing boyfriend’s clothes is what a girl do to make him go crazy. Your boyfriend would love when you’ll wear his T- shirts or hoodies.

7. THE WAY YOU MATURELY HANDLE THINGS.

Every boyfriend wants a girlfriend who’s mature enough to sort out all of the mess. The way you’re focused on creating a relationship strong is what he truly admire.

8. ALL THOSE SWEET GOOD MORNING TEXTS.

Those sweet and cute excellent morning messages give the very best start to the day. Every morning text makes him happy and he feel blessed for a partner just like you.

8 Things Every Woman Should Stop Doing In Her Relationship

No one is perfect and no one has the perfect relationship. We all have things that we need to work on and things we can do better in our personal lives and relationships. Men are far from perfect and have things they could work on improving, but the same goes for women. In order to have a happier, more fulfilling relationship, read on to find out what things women should refrain from doing.

1. TALKING ABOUT OTHER MEN

Men can get just as self-conscious as women if they think their woman has eyes for someone else. Think about how you would react if you caught your man staring at or flirting with another woman. So, with that in mind, would you really blame your man for getting angry when you do the same thing? Most men won’t really care if you think another man is attractive, but talking about it with your significant other is probably not a good idea. Some things are better left unspoken in this case.

2. TALKING TRASH ABOUT OTHER WOMEN

Strong women stand up for other women, not try to bring them down. Talking badly about others shows signs of insecurity and low self-esteem, so even if you feel inadequate in some way compared with another woman, try to remember your good qualities. It’s okay to sometimes admit to your significant other that you feel insecure, but talking badly about other women will not help the situation or increase your self-esteem.

3. APOLOGIZING ALL THE TIME

If you did something wrong, of course you should apologize, but don’t say sorry unless you really need to. For example, you don’t need to apologize for wearing your PJ’s all day, not putting on makeup, or not cleaning the dishes one night. Learn to go easier on yourself, because lowering your stress will also benefit your relationship.

4. NOT GIVING THEIR PARTNER ENOUGH ALONE TIME

Every person on this planet needs a little time alone to rejuvenate and keep up other relationships as well. It’s not normal or healthy to only spend time with your significant other, so make sure you allow your partner the space he or she needs.

5. CUTTING OUT YOUR FRIENDS

Don’t neglect your own friendships either. You need friendships just as much as your partner does, so make sure to nurture your other relationships, too. Strong friendships help rather than harm good long-term relationships, so try to strike a balance between the two.

6. TEXTING OTHER PEOPLE WHEN OUT WITH YOUR PARTNER

Sure, answering one or two texts isn’t a problem, but staring at your phone the whole time you’re out with your partner will make them feel neglected. Spend quality time with your partner when you can get it, because relationships can’t work unless both people put in some effort. Referring to an old saying, “You should dance with the one that brought you.”

7. TALKING ABOUT YOUR EX

Men get jealous just like women do and want to feel like they’re the only person you’ve ever loved. Of course you can mention people you dated in the past, but talking about them all the time or comparing them to your current lover will only cause arguments and confusion in a relationship.

8. NOT REALLY LISTENING

Everyone wants attention and for people to hear what they are saying. So, when your partner talks to you, put down the phone and really listen to what they have to say. You wouldn’t want your partner to ignore you or half-listen to you, so give them the same respect you would want.

5 Things Your Partner Should Never Ask You For

When you’re in a relationship, you want to do everything you can for your partner. When you’re in love, you’d move heaven and earth to make your partner smile. But when does this become dangerous, as opposed to romantic?

Unfortunately, there are people out there that seek to use and abuse the trust and devotion of their significant other. They ask for seemingly small things one at a time until they build up into a terrifying crescendo of toxicity and emotional abuse that is very difficult to break free from.

It’s important that you are aware of the difference between a reasonable request and a controlling, manipulative one. That way, you can catch any harmful ones and nip them in the bud before they grow out of control.

HERE ARE 10 THINGS YOUR PARTNER SHOULD NEVER ASK YOU FOR

1.    ISOLATION FROM YOUR FAMILY OR FRIENDS

Each person in a relationship should have their own lives outside of the partnership – friends, family, or any other kind of social group that is separate from their partner’s. They should not be made to feel like they have to cut themselves off and rely on their partner alone. This is extremely unhealthy and leads to codependency.

A partner who tries to cut you off from those you care about is exhibiting a form of emotional abuse. They are forcing you to depend only on them and keeping you to themselves. It’s jealous, controlling, and toxic. They may say convincing things, such as: (1)

  • But I don’t get to spend any time with you anymore! (Even when you spend a lot of time with them already.)
  • I don’t trust that friend of yours. I’m pretty sure they’re backstabbing you.
  • Your mother is toxic; don’t you see that? I’m just looking out for you!
  • I’m just not comfortable with you having male/female friends.
  • None of your friends like you anyway.

It’s not unusual for a partner to dislike the occasional person in your life. Not everyone is going to get along. They are more than welcome to talk to you about their worries regarding someone in your life; however, they must respect that, at the end of the day, it is your decision who you keep in your life.

2.    LACK OF PRIDE IN YOUR OWN SUCCESS

Partners are supposed to support each other and lift each other up. They are supposed to celebrate together and be proud of each other. If your partner is telling you that you shouldn’t or don’t deserve to be proud, or that you should tone it down a notch, that’s a big red flag.

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When you’re in a relationship, you want to do everything you can for your partner. When you’re in love, you’d move heaven and earth to make your partner smile. But when does this become dangerous, as opposed to romantic?

Unfortunately, there are people out there that seek to use and abuse the trust and devotion of their significant other. They ask for seemingly small things one at a time until they build up into a terrifying crescendo of toxicity and emotional abuse that is very difficult to break free from.

It’s important that you are aware of the difference between a reasonable request and a controlling, manipulative one. That way, you can catch any harmful ones and nip them in the bud before they grow out of control.

3.    FORGIVENESS FOR TOXIC BEHAVIORS

No partner is perfect. At some point, your partner will slip up and wrong you. But if their immediate reaction when you call them out on the problem is to deflect blame or make excuses, you’re in trouble. A partner like this might say things like:

  • I didn’t mean to do it! Can’t you just forget it, already?
  • Come on, it’s not a big deal. Let it go.
  • You made me do this!

In these cases, they may be asking you to forgive and overlook actions like:

  • Violence
  • Unwarranted outbursts
  • Cheating
  • Invasions of personal privacy
  • Violation of boundaries

Should you hold a grudge forever? No, of course not; you have to either move forward in the relationship or decide to break up. It’s not fair to hold a mistake against someone forever.

But, at the same time, you should not feel forced or guilt-tripped into forgiving and forgetting too quickly – and you definitely shouldn’t be asked to overlook toxicity. Instead, work together to overcome the problem with positive thinking.

4.    TO BE IN THE MIDDLE

You’re not your partner’s errand-servant. You’re not there to solve their problems on your own so they can avoid them. If a partner continuously asks you to take on a middleman role, tread carefully. Here are a couple of situations where you might find yourself in the middle.

A)    PICKING SIDES

A partner may get into a disagreement with someone you know and force you to pick a side. While you will likely support your partner because of your loyalty to them, the choice should still be up to you in the end and you shouldn’t be pressured into agreeing with them.

B)    PASSING MESSAGES

Does your partner ask you to help them communicate with their friends or family members? Are you constantly asked to be the one to pass messages to others on their behalf, so they don’t have to face the consequences? This simply isn’t fair on you.

C)    CHOOSING THEM

A toxic partner will say something like: “It’s either me or them!” In essence, they try to force you to choose either something/someone you care for very much or your relationship. This is a form of blackmail and cannot be looked upon in any positive way.

5.    QUITTING OR CHANGING YOUR JOB

Some partners may feel insecure about the fact that you earn more or similar to them. Conversely, if you earn less than them, they may think negatively of you for not earning enough. Either way, these are toxic thoughts to have – and when acted on, they are especially damaging.

The Top 4 Things That Men Look For In Relationships

You might be struggling with trying to understand what it is a man is looking for when he gets into a relationship. Perhaps you have been single for far too long and you’re desperate to find success in love with a quality guy. But you don’t really know what men are looking for when it comes to romance and relationships. You know that in order for you to put yourself in the best position to succeed in love, you need to be able to know what it is men are looking for, right? But how do you do that short of actually just asking him what he wants?

Well, you can always refer to this article for help.

Remember that men aren’t always going to be the most communicative when it comes to their needs, wants, and expectations in a relationship. They aren’t always going to be so willing to open up about what it is they’re looking for in a woman and in love. That’s why you’re either going to have to just wait for him to eventually reveal his secrets to you – or you could just analyze him for yourself. Either way, it’s a lot of work, and you’re never really assured of anything.

Or you can refer to this article too! At the end of the day, everything in this world can be boiled down to a science – even love and relationships. And as it turns out, research has shed some substantial light on what it is that men typically look for in love and relationships. And you don’t have to read some complicated research papers to find out more about this issue. This article is going to spell everything out for you.

Just make sure that you read until the very end. So, without much further ado, here are the top 4 things that men look for in love and relationships:

1. Patience and Understanding

Contrary to popular belief, a lot of men don’t think that they’re right all of the time. In fact, a lot of men are deeply insecure about who they are. They just happen to do a really good job at hiding it and making it seem like they’re supremely confident in themselves. But a lot of men really know that they have tendencies to screw up a lot – and that’s why it’s important to them to be with a woman who has patience and understanding.

A guy is always going to want to be with a girl who won’t nag on him and make him feel bad for making a mistake every now and then. He is a work in progress and he is always trying to better himself. But he won’t be able to maximize his potential if he doesn’t have a girl who won’t belittle him and demean him for not being perfect all the time.

2. Freedom

Just because a guy gets into a relationship doesn’t automatically mean that he’s going to be willing to give up his sense of freedom and individuality. Yes, it’s true that a man is going to want to feel needed in a relationship. He’s always going to want to be with a girl who is territorial of him. However, he also has his boundaries.

It’s important that you still make your man feel like he can be his own person independent from the relationship. He has to be able to feel like it’s still okay for him to be himself and act on his own volition despite being in a relationship with you.

3. Intimacy

Is it even any secret at this point? There’s a reason why a lot of women accuse men of only ever wanting it in a relationship. Naturally, not all men are only going to want to pursue it when looking for a partner. But it really is true that it plays a huge part in it.

Even though they are looking for love, they understand that physical intimacy is always going to be important in a relationship. It just happens to be the absolute pinnacle of physical intimacy between two people who love one another.

4. Gratitude and Appreciation

And lastly, a man is always going to want validation and gratitude from any girl that he’s with. He is always going to want to feel like his very existence is of value to her. Whenever he does something nice for you, you have to make sure to thank him and make him feel like he has made a positive impact on your life.

Men really do like to feel needed and wanted in a relationship. There’s no question about it. And that all starts with an expression of gratitude and appreciation for everything that he does.

7 Things No One Tells You About Sex On Your Period

I’ve had sex on my period twice in my life. The first time it was with a friend of a friend I kept running into around my neighborhood and was casually hooking up with for months. During one one of these “run-ins” I had my period, but really wanted to have sex with him. Before I took him home, I told him I had my period and his response was, “I love period sex.” I knew female friends who really enjoyed period sex, mostly because an orgasm is amazing for cramps, but I couldn’t imagine a guy would go so far as to say he loved it. But he did, and we had a ~bloody~ good time.

The second time I had period sex was actually not too long ago. As we lay in my bed, my partner said that he didn’t think vaginal sex should be off-limits “because of a little blood.” We went for it, but first I grabbed a dark towel to put on the bed, something I had learned was necessary after having period sex the first time around.

But when we discuss period sex, we don’t always cover all the details. Yes, orgasm endorphins can ease cramps and, no, it’s not going to be some sort of insane blood bath (although there will be blood), but there are things that aren’t always covered. Here are seven things no one tells you about period sex:

1 You Should Use A Condom

Even if you’re in a committed, monogamous relationship and you have another method of birth control, using a condom during period sex is must. Not only does it make for easier clean up, which is especially important if your partner is squeamish about blood, but it lessens your chance of contracting bacteria.

“Blood in general is a medium for bacteria,” Dr. Alyssa Dweck, OB/GYN, Assistant Clinical Professor at Mount Sinai School of Medicine, and author of V is for Vagina: Your A-Z Guide to Piercings, Periods, Pleasure, and So Much More tells Bustle. “If blood in the vagina or uterus is exposed to some bacteria during unprotected sex, there are more places for bacteria to grow.”V

2 Position Is Everything

While period sex won’t have you looking like Carrie in Stephen King’s classic 1976 movie Carrie after you and your partner finish, it’s important to choose your positions wisely. For example, the spooning position or the missionary sex position are going to be your best bet, from a gravitational perspective. Think about it: If you’re on top, there’s likely to be a bit more blood than if you were on the bottom — it’s just basic science. So if you want to limit how much blood you have involved in your period sex, seriously think about what positions you want to avoid.

3 Shower Sex Is Only Great In Theory

As Dr. Dweck tells Bustle, some of her patients have opted for shower sex when one partner is menstruating, as a means of saving their sheets because, blood stains. But while that definitely seems like a great idea, it may only be great in theory.

For starters, shower sex can be dangerous because it’s so damn slippery. Then, if you toss in some menstrual blood, some of which is definitely bound to at least trickle down your leg, things get even more slippery. Before you know it, you’re both slip-sliding in the shower, and one of you, if not both of you, ends up falling. Basically, you’re better off staying on a flat surface and just putting a towel under you.

4 You Can Still Get Pregnant

Although lots of things come up when people talk about period sex, the topic that doesn’t come up enough is yes, you can really get pregnant during your period.

“If you’re really having your period, then you ovulated two weeks ago, you did not get pregnant, and you’re shedding uterine lining,” Dr. Dweck tells Bustle. “If that is really the case, then you can’t get pregnant because the window of fertility is gone.”

But the problem is that so many women have irregular cycles, so if you don’t know exactly when you’re menstruating and ovulating, the risk is there. Beside, you should be using a condom during period sex anyway, as mentioned in number one.

5 It May Make Things Really Intimate

Of course, period sex if different for everyone. For some people, period sex is not really an act you do with just anybody because it requires trust and an extreme level of comfort. And, exposure to one’s bodily fluid like blood, can create a type of intimacy you won’t have with just anyone.

6 It May Shorten Your Period

Because when we discuss period sex we usually address how it feels and logistics of keeping the blood as minimal as possible, we tend to skip over a major selling point: It can shorten the length of your period.

With every contraction that comes with an orgasm, the uterine lining and blood are expelled. So, we can deduce that more orgasms means more contractions which means more expelling and… voila! Your period could be shortened by a few days.

7 It Feels Really Good

In addition to the many benefits of period sex, like alleviating cramps aside, it also feels really good. Why? Well, for a lot of women, they’re hornier than usual when they have their period, and I think this is something that people don’t mention enough. Also, because you are menstruating, there’s no need for lube, so things are really slippery and fun. Even if you don’t climax, sex on your period still feels great, as you’re sort of scratching the itch of your libido that’s in overdrive for the moment.

Takeaway? Period sex can be pretty damn awesome; you just need to go into it realizing what’s involved. Of course, you may try it and think it’s the worst, and that’s totally fine. At least with these seven pieces of information in your pocket, you’ll have a good idea of what to expect.

9 THINGS THAT MAKE HIM GO CRAZY WHENEVER YOU’RE NOT TOGETHER

1. YOUR GIRLY PRODUCTS AND CLOTHES AROUND HIS HOME.

They may take up a lot of space in his abode; but he knows that they are yours. They serve as subtle reminders of your existence in his life. And it reminds him of how much he misses you whenever you’re not there with him.

2. YOUR COOKING SKILLS.

You already know that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. It proves to him that you are someone who is perfectly capable of taking care of him. And he’s really going to miss your cooking skills whenever you aren’t around. He’s going to miss feeling pampered and taken care of. You spoil him; and it drives him crazy whenever he can’t be with you.

3. YOUR OVERALL HELPFULNESS IN HIS LIFE.

Congratulations if you have actually found a man who is deeply appreciative and thankful for everything that you do in his life. You wouldn’t have to wonder about whether he notices your overall value and effort. But if he’s the kind of guy who just isn’t expressive, know that he really appreciates your helpfulness whenever you’re not around. He grows to realize that he can’t just keep on relaxing because you are always the one who is picking up the pieces whenever you’re there. So, he has to work double-time whenever you aren’t.

4. YOUR HAIR ALL OVER THE PLACE.

He might act like he’s so annoyed seeing all of your hair all over his apartment or his bathroom. But watch all of that annoyance fade whenever you’re away. Know that when you’re not around, he’s going to miss you. And he’s going to hate seeing your hair around his apartment because it’s going to remind him of the fact that you’re not there with him. He’s going to hate the fact that even though your essence is there, your physical presence is nowhere to be found.

5. YOUR PHYSICAL TOUCH.

There’s always something so calming and endearing about you touching your man. Whether it’s something as simple as the two of you holding hands as you’re walking alongside one another or if you’re just gently rubbing his leg as you’re seated beside each other. He might not really mind it as it’s going on; but he really does love it. And he’s going to end up missing it whenever you’re not within each other’s physical reach. He loves the subtle transfers of love and affection that occur within every single touch.

6. YOUR OVERALL CHATTINESS ABOUT ANYTHING AT ALL.

Whenever you’re together, he might act as if he is generally annoyed whenever you end up rambling on and on about something that he’s not even the least bit interested in. He might act as if he just wants you to keep quiet and give him some peace and silence. However, whenever you’re not around, he’s going to really end up missing hearing your voice. It’s scientifically proven that males just generally tend to find comfort and joy in hearing the voice of a woman. And when he doesn’t get to hear your voice for a while; it stresses him out.

7. YOUR KISSES.

Of course, there’s no denying the physical and emotional significance of a kiss. It’s a very endearing form of physical intimacy that all modern couples incorporate into their daily lives. Sometimes, couples can take their kisses for granted. Sometimes, he can take your kisses for granted. And he’s really going to end up missing your kisses whenever you’re not around for him to lock lips with. He’s going to miss that physical manifestation of your shared love and affection for one another.

8. YOUR GENERAL THOUGHTFULNESS.

Whenever you’re together, he loves the fact that you’re always so thoughtful. He loves that you are always able to think of him; that you always keep him in mind regardless of what you might be doing. You are always looking out for his best interests even when he fails to do so for himself. He knows he can always count on you to be there for him because of how dedicated you are to his overall happiness and comfort. And when you’re not around, it’s as if he has to pay extra attention to his own needs.

9. YOUR ABSENCE.

The one thing that REALLY drives a man crazy about when you’re not together is your absence. It’s as simple as that. Sometimes, a person doesn’t really fully appreciate what one has until it gets taken away from them. And if he’s REALLY feeling your absence, then you know just how much you really mean to him. He loves that you are there for him all of the time; but he really feels your impact on his life overall whenever you’re not around. It’s when you aren’t there that he really gains a better appreciation for what you add to his life.

10 Places Where Men Most Love To Be Touched

We always want to be establishing physical intimacy in our relationship in an effort to get closer to our partners. In this day and age, no relationship is ever going to survive when there is no intimacy – both on an emotional and physical level. And that’s why you can’t be afraid of getting touchy with your man. You shouldn’t underestimate a man’s willingness and need to be sensual. Yes, he’s going to go crazy over all of those subtle touches, the suggestive glances, the sweet caresses, the passionate kisses, and the tight hugs. These are all great physical manifestations of love and you should never be shy about showing them to your man. You never want to be the withholding of your feelings in your own relationship. You wouldn’t want your man to think that you are just taking him for granted. You always want him to feel like you are willing to work hard for his love.

So, make sure that you never limit yourself. Always be finding new ways to make him FEEL the love that he has for you. Be creative. Shake things up. Always be willing to do whatever it takes to preserve the level of passion, love, and intimacy in your relationship. You already know that he enjoys being touched by the woman that he loves. So, capitalize on that. And if you’re unsure how to get creative with it, then just refer to this article. You can start here so you can gain some ideas on how you can really touch your man and ignite that flame of physical intimacy in your relationship.

1. Ruffle his hair with your fingers.

It’s a very subtle but very intimate gesture that he’s definitely going to enjoy most especially if he has messy hair, to begin with.

2. Nibble on his neck.

Just some slight nibbling is going to be enough to do the trick. Don’t be chomping down on him to the point of hurting him – unless of course, that happens to be what he likes.

3. Play with his tongue a little bit.

A little tongue action while the two of you are Frenching is always going to be welcome. Don’t be afraid to play around with it a little bit. Get creative and respond to his advances. Give him healthy doses of aggression and gentleness just to mix things up.

4. Whisper in his ear.

Make it seem very intimate and discreet. Make him feel like there is a secret that you want to tell him. There are certain pleasures and sensations that arise as a result of being whispered to – and men absolutely love that.

5. Play with his hands and feet.

There’s no denying that the touching of hands and feet can often lead to sex. There’s just something inherently sexy about the meeting of two peoples’ limbs.

6. Gently lick his nipples.

Take not that not all guys are typically going to be into this – and it’s unlikely that guys will love it more than girls do. However, men’s nipples can still be very sensitive areas that will crave for some stimulation. Just try it out once to see if your man likes it.

7. Grab a hold of his sacrum.

If you happen to be making love to one another and he happens to be facing you, try to grab a hold of his sacrum – or in other terms, his lower back. You are adding support to the position that you’re in and it shows him that you are staying mindful of other aspects of his body with your hands especially.

8. Run your hands through his inner thigh.

This is a very suggestive gesture that is going to drive a lot of men crazy. When you run your hands, fingers, feet, lips, or tongue up his thigh, it’s going to make him wild. You are essentially suggesting to him that you want to go to the ultimate hotspot, but you stop just shy of it. It’s a tease but he’s going to be welcome to it.

9. Play with the perineum.

Not a lot of women are familiar with the perineum and not guys may know this as well so that might make things a little more challenging at first. It’s the area of a man’s body that can be found just between his anus and his scrotum. This area is actually a very sensitive erogenous zone and a lot of men enjoy the pleasure of stimulation there.

10. Find the man’s F spot.

You are probably familiar with the idea of a G spot. Of course, you are. You are a woman. But have you ever heard of a guy’s F spot? F actually stands for frenulum and most guys love to be stimulated in that area. It is actually the underside of his penis that is composed of loose skin. It should be shaped like a V and most pleasure centers are found at the tip of that V.